Friends, as we all know, can be divided into 2 kinds: 1) Those who supports you, encourage you, stick to you, give you advice and things like that, positive friends, and 2) Those who pull you down, well, bad influence friends. But then recently, I discovered a new kind of friend which is different from the 2 stated above. And whether are they more dangerous than the 2nd type of friends, you tell me.
They don't pull you down, they don't encourage you. But they sow the seeds of evil(maybe exaggerating on the word evil a bit) inside your mind. Things that you once love or enjoy doing after being sowed the seeds, you hate them, you dread them. Why? Because someone sowed the seeds of hatred or dissatisfaction inside you. If a friend of yours keep telling you,
'i hate this teacher, so boring'
'i hate this teacher, so lousy'
day and night, It would be a matter of time before your point of view towards the teacher change, from good to bad. Well of course the 'teacher thing' is just an example. There are of course other things such as 'this friend no good', 'this church no good' or 'i hate this place'.
And it makes me wonder, should these kind of 'friends' be our friends where they poison our minds like that or should we just put the blame on ourselves that we are too weak minded to overcome them? or some would say we should advice them above their negative behavious. Tell me your opinion.
Sunday, March 1, 2009
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hmm most ppl say those kind of negative things is cause they are onli human. everyone's attitude is unique ma. so some ppl are very judging some are not. my advice is. if u don like someone talking like tat or keep repeating tat den say nicely. that u don like or jus say. "i don't think so." if tat someone say lagi banyak negative things den jus say its my opinion on it. ur thinking n mine is diff. usually i do tat. but now a days lol in college all i hear is "OMG examm warrrghhhh tension!!!" lol.
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